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Kinks, Wooden Dildos & Horny Stories: Unpacking Kinky History with Esme Louise James

Kinks, Wooden Dildos & Horny Stories: Unpacking Kinky History with Esme Louise James

Time: 1:01:49
What IS a kink? What did we use for dildos before silicone and batteries? And WHY is there a pornography room in The Vatican? Luscious QUEEN and Kinky Historian Esme Louise James joins us to share some of the most fascinating stories about kink, give Abbie some tips on how to f*ck herself with a suctioned dildo on her shower wall, and generally blow our little minds. 
Like, why do we depict witches riding brooms? Why do we think an obsession with feet is weird? AND Why have we only just found a dildo from Ancient Rome.
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Listen to Esme's podcast Kinky History 
Follow @esme.louisee on IG 
Check out @esme.louisee on TikTok 
Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG 
 CREDITS 
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Esme Louise James @esme.louisee .Supervising Producer & Editor: Elise Cooper @elisejcooper  Digital and Co-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode . Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh 
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Episode ID: 1000608197507
GUID: a41771bc-d9fa-43e5-adc9-afdc007587ef
Release Date: 11/04/2023, 00:00:00

Description

Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics.
Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email hello@itsalotpodcast.com. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .

Apple Podcasts: Customer Reviews

Lovable chaos

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Pikkle Suarez
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2023-04-05
Loved the episode with Toni!!

Love it

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SweetCoraline
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2023-03-30
We love a lil giggle!

Love it!

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rachnarelle
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2023-03-30
Love listening to the pod for a good laugh, Abbie is great! Nightmare fuels are my fave. Can’t wait for the live show! :)

Adam Lambert

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lydiemary
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2023-03-10
The Adam Lambert interview was fabulous. It was funny, entertaining at times serious and SO well done. Could have listened for another hour

ICONIC

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HoneyChicken55555
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2023-03-08
Yeah Meshel Laurie has been sending harrassy weird email to women in the industry for years.

!!

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Ashleigh Piles
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2023-02-24
Take a shot every time Abbie says “my uncles an orthodontist”

Funny and smart

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lucy.gou
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2023-02-20
Funny and smart

Self indulgent

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Jsmithdomain
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2023-02-11
Abbie’s narcissistic desires is beyond crass….what a bore she is…. Her sycophants giggling and agreeing with every self indulgent word that comes out of her filthy mouth is beyond the pale.

HATE

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fromtheterritory
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2023-01-26
HATE!!!!!!! as a member of an aboriginal family I feel so offended by how she is spreading information about January 26. More harm than good. What a disgrace this woman is!
Hate hate hate and in the words of Greta, how dare you

Moving on

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Seth333
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2023-01-20
I liked listening to this podcast when she had something to say, she became completely unbearable. I’d say it’s the dexies scrambling her brain..

Not for me

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itsmehi6!
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2023-01-18
Found it hard to listen to

Please stop man bashing

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Dalmatian Doll
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2023-01-17
I used to really like Abbie and the different topics. I found it interesting and at times empowering. But not anymore. She talks so poorly about men that it really gives true feminists a bad name. She then tears other women down and puts them against each making sure she is the victim to get favour from fans. She says she’s all about rights and freedom of speech, but if you don’t agree with her opinion, you’re a hater. Very disappointed.

0 stars

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carimonicaking
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2023-01-15
Self indulgent, narcissistic, vapid content.

Not for me

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Villegal
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2023-01-14
Not my brand of ‘feminism’.

Nope!

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Resebekah
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2023-01-11
I use to love AC, however the bullying got too much and the fact that she is thinks she is ALWAYS right.
Kyle and Jackie O all the way 🤘💁‍♀️.

Brilliant smart woman

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lis12/:3
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2023-01-04
Love this woman and the way she is constantly making us think. Shaking the paradigm. Questioning the patriachy. Showing her vulnerability. I’m very excited for my daughters generation with expressive , strong role models like this in our media.

Strong opinionated boss worth celebrating

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MaryJo19822019
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2022-12-28
Keep doing what you’re doing! Reading some of these half baked reviews just goes to show how much you’re moving the needle and marching to the beat of your own drum x

Love

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kizbiddi
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2022-12-27
Obsessed with this podcast

Cringe

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Cassie.milne
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2022-12-27
I used to be a fan of Abbie but I find her podcast lacks depth and is really just an outlet for her to vent and complain. It’s not woke, it’s just cringe.

Obnoxious Trash

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inner cosmology
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2022-12-27
Wouldn’t waste 5 seconds listening to her obnoxious rants.

Difficult to listen to

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Rmodea
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2022-12-26

Haters gonna hate lmao

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ainssssssssss
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2022-12-26
Ya’ll just reachin because Abbie calls everyone out on their bs. Great poddy with lots of laughs and roasts, whilst also talking about the real stuff.

Listen if you’d like to rot your own brain

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sydau23
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2022-12-26
I’d rather lose my hearing than continue to listen to AC.

Makes me laugh out loud

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E.M.O.K
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2022-12-26
Abbie is well informed, open minded and passionate about the things she cares about. I listen to her because her take on things are often hilarious and enlightening. She is vulnerable and honest and it’s great listening to someone be so authentic about their own opinions and experiences.

Just shut up

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RosebudKay
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2022-12-26
Dangerously unintelligent narcissist. How anyone wants to listen to what this whinger has to say is beyond me.

It’s not a lot

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Megcarmo
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2022-12-26
Well, I used to like Abbie’s podcast before her rants became tirades directed at pulling women down.
I guess as another reviewer put it so simply - If you enjoy being shouted at by a self confessed narcissist then this is the show for you.
I’ve stopped listening and my ears are better for it.

How can anyone like this podcast

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kazel19
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2022-12-26
Rubbish podcast run by an absolute bully

Love

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StacyMaree
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2022-12-26
Such a queen

Hardly a feminist

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femalebutnotafeminist
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2022-12-26
What feminist brings other women down and the continues to still preach feminism? Just vile, be yourself not who you think society wants you to be.

Blah blah blah

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vendopom
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2022-12-26
What makes this women think that everyone cares for her loud obnoxious opinions?
Classic narcissist

Ick

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berjdid
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2022-12-26
Can we stop giving this woman airtime … shut the f up Abbie.

Mean girls vibes

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Igtaaaaaam
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2022-12-26
I used to like Abbie but her rants and lack of kindness makes her impossible to listen to now. You’ve lost a once loyal listener here

Arrogant and vapid

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Madmlb
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2022-12-26
I used to quite enjoy Abbie but find she is increasingly narcissistic and self involved. Her attitude is really unattractive and I think she’s getting very close to being Icarian.

It’s a lot…. of whinging

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Liviaow
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2022-12-26
She does cover some interesting topics, just wish there wasn’t a huge rant in every episode.

Tasteless trash

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TamTam1985
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2022-12-25
Waste of time

Hypocrite

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gahahahg
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2022-12-24
Worst women ever

Love you Abbie!

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fight-for-your-dreamz
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2022-12-23
Abbie has made me feel more confident in myself and my sexuality. She doesn’t shy away from speaking out on difficult topics and supports women and other minority groups. Much unlike other podcasters who are more performative in their activism and only call people out when it affects them directly.

Abbie is a classic example of Narcissism

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VernJ.L
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2022-12-22
Abbie lacks of emotional intelligence and empathy especially constantly trying to cancel other influencers in her Instagram story and her podcast. It is becoming a trend where Abbie have adopted an attitude of “me me me”. She is narcissist. Her opinion is not above everyone’s opinion. People can politely agree to disagree on things but Abbie makes it clear that she is superior to everyone else.
She should know better especially being bullied in her tv stint then she does similar things to everyone eg. Brooke burton, elly miles, Britney hockley, Laura Byrne and megan Marx regardless topics and opinions. Other influencers are also in wrong too but I don’t see them ranting like Abbie does.
Abbie claims that women should support women but we can see that she is often tearing every female influencer apart.
Not a trustworthy podcast

Love

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Breee95chap
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2022-12-22
Have always been a fan of Abbie and the podcast

Consistent

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liivviissppii
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2022-12-22
What I love about Abbie is how she holds herself to certain standards when it comes to feminism and she doesn’t budge. Her integrity is admirable. Love her.

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nothanksitsalot
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2022-12-21
All she does is call other women out for attention and to stay relevant - far from a feminist role model. No substance of intelligence in her content

Tone Deaf

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Lauren5794
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2022-12-21

Amazing

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lgh2801
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2022-12-21
Love It’s A lot and everything Abbie has consistently and passionately fought for when it comes to feminism. Holding herself and others accountable.

It’s a no from me

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P Money22222
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2022-12-21
Abbie froths on cancelling people. Its so easy for her to say “let’s support one another as women” but she’s quick to drag people, who have a different opinion to her own, through the mud.

It’s a shame

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ADGB1983
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2022-12-20
The way you insight a pile on is disgusting.
All to grow your own following.

Big Narcissist Energy

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itsalottaBS
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2022-12-20
Cut from the same narcissistic cloth as Megan from So Dramatic.
Most of her audience are people that unfortunately aren’t old enough to have a fully developed brain, or are that miserable that they’re starving hungry for the next person they can pile on in the name of social justice.
Call me crazy, but the idea of someone releasing a beer when they don’t drink beer with the ad campaign featuring said person w a mullet, might have to be the biggest pick me behaviour I’ve seen this year.
How quickly people forget that chat Abbie knowingly took public attention away from Brooke to promote her last failed relationship. Then issued an empty PR apology.
Or when she back-pedalled on calling Kyle out a few months ago because she was terrified of the ramifications that might have for her career. Sounds very similar to the issue she took such issue w just last week, no?
Or the fact that this all conveniently happened in the lead up to the announcement of Abbie hosting F Boy Island which is the epitome of heteronormativity and doesn’t even have an option for non-binary people to apply. LOL!!!!!!
Cannot wait for this walking contradiction to fall victim to the same BS she pedals.

Its a lot ….

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Mrs Alchin
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2022-12-20
Yep its a lot…a lot of drama. AC will do or say anything to stay in the media spotlight.

Great

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mikaela willans
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2022-12-19
Great

Not a fan of the pod

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Soph KE
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2022-12-19
Boring

Abbie is a bully

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justbehonest15
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2022-12-19
All Abbie does is rant, and bully people to try and stay relevant. It’s unnecessary. She harps on about feminism and THE FIRST to tear another woman down and say nasty things. There’s a way you should say and go about things hun and trying to turn women against each other then preaching about the